For the first six months of dating, I didn't trust him at all, but it wasn't because of anything he had done. I didn't want to wake up disappointed one day and be like, "Dammit! I drove the phone to his house and handed him his phone. Everybody does things right sometimes, and everyone makes mistakes sometimes, but it's not about ethnicity. I said, "Here, your girlfriend has been trying to get a hold of you!
He's a photojournalist, and I was an assignment editor.
It was all business at first, but when you work with the same people day in and out, you try to start getting to know each other.
We started joking around when he would call into the station to establish his live shot.
They all seemed liked players to me — my cousins included. I watched my closest cousin cheat regularly on his girlfriend of 10 years. I have one female cousin who dated a Latino guy for three years, but when she got pregnant, he left. They were engaged when she found out he got his ex-girlfriend pregnant.
She broke off the engagement, and he married his pregnant ex.