You might even want to consider buying lifts to put in your shoes when you go out.
However, only add about an inch or less, especially if you plan on taking them off around a girl or even friends. A good response to short related comments would be “it’s not really about my height, but how awesome I am” or “Most women I date don’t even care.” If she laments that she usually dates tall guys, I always like this reply: “You’re a little (older, younger, taller, shorter) than I usually date, but I’m willing to see what happens.” Above all, you need amused mastery in every situation.
Simply put, there are very few couples where the woman is taller. What this means is that guys who are shorter than average have a much more limited pool of women to date at the start than their taller brethren.Here are a few examples of confidence boosting activities: get fit, take on leadership positions, dress better, take up a valuable hobby (like becoming a musician), or learn the martial arts. So, be confident and proud of who you are, but don’t emphasize your lack of height either. Every smart person emphasizes the traits that others prefer. It’s why a well-endowed woman might wear a tighter shirt, but won’t draw attention to her ugly nose.Wear shoes with a heel, avoid clothes that make you look shorter (like pleated pants).Still, short guys have to work harder and be extra attractive compared to their taller friends. Tall guys have a built in advantage just for existing. In addition, I’ve successfully taught these skills to my coaching clients, many of whom are short. They’ll work for you too if you give them a chance.This is because being tall is an indicator of attraction in and of itself. Short guys often lack confidence or have trouble conveying it. Sure, you may have good reason to be insecure and angry if you’ve been teased or rejected based on your height.