I’ve added some diagrams and woven a story to give you a visual picture of the structure between two people. We must first understand that the Phil doesn’t come alone.
For this example I’ll use a relationship between a man and a woman. What comes with him is a set of beliefs, stories, and images in his mind.
Why do we feel good about ourselves one moment and bad another?
Why does a person change their attitude towards us from one day to the next?
but there are offers flying around & meetings in the works so, who knows……
I just wanted to let you know that you were my favorite this year, and if you couldn't win, at least it was your Dad, and also do you think, now that the show is over, that you, Vincent, and your Dad will be closer?
Q: Did you think in a million years that Big Brother would help you and your Dad get closer?
For the first time I understood the reasons why I got into an emotionally dramatic relationship and why I stayed as long as I did.
When I became aware of these unseen forces I knew where to make the changes to avoid the roller coaster of emotion that I had been on.