This must have been a huge letdown for him, but fortunately love won out.
My husband's parents are always telling us what to do, not to do, how to do such-and-such properly and how to raise the kids.
The two times he's been given the option to go to Inner Mongolia, and triple his income, he's turned it down.
They just seem to be more open to the idea of leaving.
In contrast though, Chinese guys who date Western women, tend to stay in China.
Jocelyn said that the guys that she's dated haven't come out directly to express their intent.
They're slow and spend a lot of time texting and talking to show their interest in you.