If you’re still emotionally engaging with him, he won’t miss the love and satisfaction of being with you.
The saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” is true – and this is the time for you to put it to work.
If he contacts you (like he calls you, or texts you, or sends you some other message), it’s not breaking no contact.
But if you respond to him reaching out to you, that count as breaking the rule.
And unless you know how to find and solve those problems that are rooted in the dynamic of your relationship, they’ll stick around, waiting to ruin your chances with him again.
Because the same problems that destroyed their relationship before are still there, unaddressed.
The alternative is panicking, stalking him, texting him constantly, and begging him to take you back – which works.
Plus, it’s about going cold turkey and proving to yourself that you can live your life without him in it. Second of all, if you truly accidentally bump into him, then here’s exactly what to do.When they do, it’s almost always a “rebound” relationship designed to distract him from the pain of losing you – and it never works.If you’re really worried that your ex is going to get into a new relationship, or you know he’s in one and you want to find out whether it’s real or not, This is about trusting that giving him time is going to make him miss you, and getting into a better mindset so you are as attractive to him as possible.It gives you the space to say, “I don’t If you want him to notice how much he misses you, he has to have the space to notice that you’re gone.He won’t notice the hole that you left in his life unless you let him.