A girl friend asked me:“According to your Yep, You’re Just Not That Into Him post, we should be honest with him…But how do I break it off in a nice way?”So, we know break up is really hard to do, but there are techniques to help you make things go as smoothly as possible.The faster you do it, the faster you’ll feel better.A guy with wounded pride and hurt feelings can get verbally abusive, so try to calm the situation with silence. Keeping in your feelings about what just happened may be overwhelming, and may cause you to want to call your ex for contact or comfort.And with false hope come drunken calls at 3am, asking if you are ready to take him back yet.So be kind and make it clear to them that they need to move on.
This will only put you in his Worst Girlfriend Hall of Fame for life. If you are angry, chances are you are mad at yourself for not seeing who this person was earlier, or for not trusting your own instincts.
It has quite often been acceptable for a male to be the older person in a relationship.
Some issues can arise if the opposite happens; a younger man and an older woman.
So here they are:“Before it goes any further, I just want to remind you all that this is purely based on my friend’s opinion and perspective.
I won’t say it will be 100% right or accurate or objective (because she also dislike or being biased towards some idols).