The two main areas that I always suggest to women who do want men to “step up and lead” are: You really want to know why there are no eligible Christian masculine men?
This ignores the blatant reality that no one wants to marry someone that they aren’t attracted to.
However, the sad case is that no one really cares about the young men in the Church.
They are allowed to drift along by their own feelings.
Now, I’m probably not the best example of talking about which people are undatable due to attraction issues as I have high standards, but the sad fact is that 67-70% of people in the USA are overweight or obese. No one wants to marry someone that is overweight or obese.
Sure, some overweight and obese people do get married, but the simple reality is that both men and women want someone who is aesthetically attractive to look at.