During the year that I spent studying in the UK I dated two extremely gorgeous dark-skinned women.
I like their beautiful brown skin, their hearty smile and to be completely honest, I love how their skin smells like vanilla.
When a man stands up for you during a difficult situation, attends functions that are important to you, considers you first when planning, goes with you to see your family or does little jobs/chores for you, these are all ways that a man says he loves you.
And no, just because I am also into Asian girls doesn’t mean that I despise black women.
I’m not saying it means I have to marry her, but it means that she has a special place in my heart and I will always do my best to be there for her regardless of how the relationship turns out (within reason).
You will find Tina Turner who is married to a white guy who has the same weird accent as I have.
It can feel like a risk since guys generally do not deal well with rejection, especially rejection in a moment of vulnerability.
And I can personally admit that love can make me feel vulnerable and can bring up fears and emotions in me that are more than I’m ready to handle at a given moment.
In this context, when a man expresses his love to a woman verbally, he feels as though he is committing to or promising that he will live up to some set of expectations of what a “man in love” should be.
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