One of the woes younger women tend to deal with when it comes to dating are men playing games with them.“It’s not always what you can bring in bed, but keeping us engaged as a woman,” she says. They lose that dating mentality,” says 25-year old Rebecca. “It’s because I don't want to deal with an immature, inexperienced, naive child... “If I'm not ready for something but you were ready years ago, find someone who's there and leave me alone.Or, you know, some version of whining about your age. With age (often) comes maturity and chivalry—take advantage!Cece even tells Jess as she's first considering dating Russell (the one and only Fancypants) that "he intimidates you because you wouldn't have to take care of him, he'd take care of you."DON' T make your man feel older than he actually is (or date yourself).He leaned in and said, ‘I know he has more money than I do, but I can do things to you that he’s too old for if you know what I mean.’ "I was so angry that I couldn’t speak.When my boyfriend came back I told him what happened.
Keep up with her.“If age is nothing but a number, don't act like a grandpa.Russell confesses he hasn't dated since 1989 and Jess replies, "That was the year I learned to use the toaster by myself." Not so hot.DO be lovey dovey, but DON' T nickname him something based on his age (Fancypants is cool, though).I expected him to say something to the bartender or to at least be as upset as I was, but instead he told me that he was sorry, and that this was going to happen, but that we couldn’t let other people’s ignorance get in the way of our relationship."He was right, it happened multiple times after that night.