But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?If you are drawn to older men for the security they bring, don’t judge him by his expensive suits, watch and nice car.For the love of all that’s holy, do not call them ma’am, do not flirt with their husbands and don’t dress too sexy, especially in the beginning. If you haven’t finished college or are on a successful career track, you can’t afford to jet across the globe only to face the end of the relationship and find yourself in the same financial state you were in when you graduated high school. It’s perfectly fine to allow him to take care of you to a point, but when he starts sounding like your father; it’s time to get out… Your friends will have fun joking around about “the old guy” or dating “Mr.You can either look at it as a fun experience and enjoy yourself, or let him know what you are sacrificing and hope he willing to work around your schedule. Smith”, but do your best to nip this behavior in the bud.Some men live a George Clooney type of life, and plan to die a bachelor. You wouldn’t want some other (younger) woman trying to take your place in your children’s lives. He may be ready to settle down and start a family, while you are just getting started as an adult and have no interest in settling down.If a long line of hot women couldn’t get ‘ol Georgie boy to settle down, it’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to get a Clooney-wanna-be to turn into the marrying type either. If that’s what you are looking for, then go for it and have a blast. Or, he may be at the stage in his life where he has already been married, has kids and has no interest in ever getting married again.
If so, perhaps it’s time for you to date an older man.Know what you are getting yourself into before you get in too deep. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she’s the best resource for learning who this man is. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know.Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man’s character.Even if it’s only for a short time, the experience you will gain will be priceless.Once you know what it’s like to be in a mature relationship, you may decide to never date men your age again.