It doesn’t take the actual content of the phone calls/texts/emails to know there’s an issue.
And, of course, be prepared to deal with the fallout should your spouse catch you snooping.
Did you get an email from them using the “wrong” email account? Pop up it was an address to a house on his map and also had seen address written down. Once phone was in my possesion, he wanted it back, saying he forgot the SIM!? The things I would c on our home computer, 6 phones prior to that one…denied any of it. He was short hours on checks, showed up early, some days late. First of all, you can get a lot more information from simple body-language (don’t know what signs to look for?
If you don’t know your spouse’s login info, most browsers give you the option of storing usernames and passwords, and it’s possible their information was saved. Go online to check your spouse’s frequent- flier account. Or are there frequent-flier miles for a trip to Las Vegas when they were supposed to be in Cleveland? I hit meetimg request one night after (all b4 giving me phone 2 throw, sell)!?? Any ideas on Blackeberry Ive had now 3 months just hoping to say; busted! He has clearly been up to no good for as ling as 2011 when I looked back, I seen multiple emails from another acct. I have literally showed him an email, number, text. there are countless books on the subject, not to mention numerous magazine articles) than from creeping through their personal phone, files, computers and e-mails.
Practically every automotive nav system, both built-in and portable, has a list of previous destinations. I never told him I looked, or used them as proof of anything other than as a personal tool, to keep focused on what was real rather than the falsehood he presented to me. He is the keeper of the cell phone account, and he won’t put me on to see the details of his phone, who he calls and texts.
If the No-Tell Motel is on there and your spouse doesn’t work in the hospitality business, that’s a sign something may be up. He clearly was calling and texting all day at his work. It helped me be sure of myself and my plans for the future. I need something to break the code, track the texts, GPS, anything to help me with custody! And how will that look to the judge when they are deciding who will get the kids…