You don’t care to hear about it, to do it yourself, and you don’t see why people want to do it. And before anyone asks, yes, I’ve gotten myself off before.It’s just okay.” • “I’m only 21, but so far I’d say I’m right in the most uncomfortable age for it.I can’t play sports due to chronic physical problems: because of an accident I had when I was 21, my back, my knees and my feet shoot up in pain if I exert myself.Doing so much as vacuuming my home has me needing to sit down and recover for a while. I bring a book with me to read, and aside from that, my goal is to eat/drink something really good.I wish there was a way I could just get this over with.” • “I’m a 30-year-old virgin male. It was so bad that some girls pretended to want to begin a relationship with me so as to get me to let my guard down.Next thing I knew, they were telling everyone about the latest awkward thing I attempted, and I would never hear the end of it. I became an adult, but I’m really an eternal teenager.Also, my parents were Muslim, and I wasn’t allowed to date.Some rebelled against it, but I remained a good boy (hate myself for it now).
It really hasn’t impacted me too much otherwise – I live independently, work full-time, dress pretty well, participate in a community chorus, do volunteering, and am currently in grad school. I just have trouble enough making lasting friendships, let alone getting to sex.
It’s not like a hatred for relationships or anything, it’s just like …
imagine a hobby that other people have, where you just aren’t interested in it at all.
I want to have sex, but I guess I’m old-fashioned in that I really want my first time to be with someone I have an emotional connection with.” via GIPHY • “I’m 31, and I’ve still got my v-card intact. That’s another story though.” • “26-year-old virgin reporting.
Honestly, I was never very social when I was young.