Use Linked In to casually say hi to interesting men you’ve met at events.You will find out soon enough if they are married or committed, so, for now, just be friendly and see what happens.When I was a little girl, I wanted to be a teacher, then a detective (like Columbo or Jessica Fletcher, ahem), and then a writer.Many moons later, and here I am teaching people who are tired of emotional unavailability, toxic relationships, and feeling 'not good enough', how to reduce their emotional baggage so that they can reclaim themselves and make space for better relationships and opportunities.Let single girlfriends know that you are actively looking for a relationship – maybe they know someone who is perfect for you!
So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?
Do this, and you will not accept less from others than what you can already be and do for yourself.
That means no more sacrificing your needs and desires, or being sucked back in by the one who still can’t commit or treat you right, or competing with others as if someone is The Grand Poobah.
They explain that a change in mindset is essential for women over 60 who want to find romance.
In my recent interview with dating coach, David Wygant, he suggested that men are often the ones who lack confidence and suffer from fear of rejection.